This... My brother in law has recently gone onto palliative care after a long and drawn out cancer battle... I've been mega quiet the last 2 years on the forums as have had my hands full with his business and kids... he was given the all clear at Christmas and discharged after intense chemo. 2 months later we were back where we started and the tumour came back bigger than ever...it has been a slow deterioration but has at least left time for the admin, passwords and general nitty gritty minutiae to be worked out... His 2 kids are the reason I came out of my dark ages and being 8 and 11, Lego has been an absolute godsend as a distraction... not just for them, for me as well... last Thursday he discharged himself from hospital to be with his wife and kids. Covid meant he faced the end with no visitors so he left hospital and 24 hours later 100 or so of his friends and family came from across the UK and all took to the water for the day on boats (they live by the coast in North Wales and best way to socially distance!). It was humbling and amazing. So this is a multi-angled post..
A complaint at the cruelty of cancer... a big thankyou to this community for being who and what you all are... and a reminder to live everyday like it is your last... because it can all change in an instant.
Thinking of you at this tough time @Phil B, keep trucking fella