*sigh* One thing I am tired of is people assuming I'm a Trump supporter because I'm raising a red flag about "cancel culture". I have also been accused of being a Trump hater because I tell people he is a clinical narcissist, which he is.
Trump acts like an impetuous child when he doesn't get his way. His language is unbecoming of the office and quite frankly unbecoming of a decent human being. How did he get elected? Because as some have said, it was the right time, right place. Or to quote Monty Python's Flying Circus, "And now for something completely different".
Having worked for a narcissist doesn't make me an expert by any means, but here is what I have witnessed: great at getting new things accomplished, a tour de force that can rarely be stopped from accomplishing what they want, and they will also ignore advisors and do what they are convinced is right. Those are probably the most positive things that can be said. Now here is the rest...
Narcissists must draw people into what I like to call the "whirlwind of their life." Their "job" is to keep everyone else off-balance so that they can maintain control of them and their situation. (This is why world leaders hate Trump, they can't get a read on him.) Here is the important point - a narcissist has an insatiable need to be emotionally fed. As much as Trump calls Nancy Pelosi "crazy," more than likely he has driven her crazy. With Biden as president it may take a while, but she should go back to normal. It is clear that she has been very stressed. At the same time, unless others have figured out how to play the "narcissist game," Trump has most likely exhausted them as well.
If a narcissist is leading a team, they will burn out employees at a high rate because being near a narcissist is exhausting. BTW, most politicians and political commentators as well as many of the world's leading business people have narcissistic tendencies. I suspect Trump has it worse than most, but that is only a suspicion. The only thing a narcissist hates more than those who oppose them is another narcissist, because narcissist #2 will never emotionally feed narcissist #1 the way they need to be fed and vice versa. I have witnessed this first-hand. Try having two narcissists who both think they need to control you. Both hated one another, refused to speak to one another, and both tried to play me off the other. *shiver* I finally escaped the situation and have zero desire to ever experience that again.
Here are a couple of important items I have witnessed in relationship to people "outside the organization": 1) if a narcissist sees value in someone, they will praise them to everyone. They will seek their input and make sure they have their support and loyalty. It does not matter if the person is a man or woman, black or white, *** or straight - a narcissist will treat anyone they believe will support them more valuable than gold. 2) However, if a narcissist does not see value in someone (especially if they have not supported what the narcissist wants) then they will attack, belittle, and demean the person. It does not matter if the person is a man or woman, black or white, *** or straight - a narcissist will treat anyone they believe is beneath them, or that they consider a threat to their leadership, horribly. It can be quite depressing, especially if unable to escape the relationship.
One last thing, narcissists tend to have very low self-esteem and are a high "D" (for Dominance, from the DISC personality assessment) personality type; meaning they must be the top dog and in control. Hence why people who have learned to get along with Trump praise him. This emotionally feeds him and actually gets him to be a supporter of theirs. Sadly, he needs this praise to feel good about himself. So now Trump has lost the election. How do you think he is doing emotionally when the majority of Americans have said "no" to him? He is lashing out at the "weak Republicans" because they aren't fighting for him the way he thinks they should. This is also why he made the Georgia run-off about him and not about the country. His emotional hunger is super high after loosing the election. In short, he is really hurting. Everyone has been asking, "Why a rally in Washington DC when the congress was voting?" I believe the answer is to feed his emotional hunger. I don't believe he meant for people to rush into the capitol but he was not thinking about the people, he was feeding his own emotional need. I also suspect this is why he is so slow to speak to the people - to feed our emotional need. I believe this is a real struggle for him - to give emotionally.
The only way I was able to break out of the craziness that my narcissist boss created in our workplace was to ignore him for an entire month. That gave me enough time to clear my head to be able to think straight and realize how he had manipulated me. It was then that I realized that no matter how much good I was doing in my position, for my own health and that of my family, I needed to change jobs. I was much younger and it was a learning experience. Now, when I meet a narcissist I realize the trap sooner and it drives them insane that I refuse to play their game. It requires a lot of grace and forgiveness. Part of what they feed off of is people reacting to their negativity. When a narcissist realizes I will not feed their need for attention, they ignore me. This is why I believe the best way to "get rid of Trump" is to ignore him, not punish him. If they punish him, he will dog them (everyone who hurts him) for the rest of his life. They are literally creating monster with this impeachment stuff. To this extent, Trump being removed from twitter, facebook, etc. could be argued as the right and perfect thing to do. However, the larger implication for the rest of the world is very, very dangerous.
re: the George Washington quote - I have believed his quote was right from a young age and I believe it is coming more to fruition with each passing year. I don't vote political party, I vote for the person I believe will accomplish what needs to happen. This is just my opinion, but I believe political parties (all of them) are public versions of the mob and are out for their own good. I also believe individuals within political parties are standing up for the best in our country, but their respective political parties will keep those individuals from truly doing what is right because the "party" says so. Just watch which political party allows their members to "think for themselves."